7 Signs Your Girlfriend is Crazy
DATING + LIFESTYLE
~ BY MONICA HUNT
SIGN #1: She Calls And Texts All The Time
If you’re not calling your girlfriend as much as she calls and/or texts you, then you might have a mad woman on your hands. Frequent calling and texting is especially troubling when a missed call/text on your end results in a rampage of phone calls from her seconds after the last missed call. When you finally get an opportunity to get back to her and she’s demanding to know why you didn’t answer, it might be time to move on.
SIGN #2: She Lies (Big and Small)
Lying is sometimes necessary in situations where you don’t want to hurt delicate feelings, but constantly lying about big and small details — like going to the grocery store — is both odd and irritating. How could you ever trust someone who lies about needing to go to the store to buy vegetables?
SIGN #3: She Goes Through Your Personal Items
Speaking of trust, if your girlfriend goes through your personal belongings, both physical and digital (Facebook, email, texts), then she has some major insecurity issues with the relationship you share and with herself. Not only is snooping a violation of trust and privacy, it also leaves the victim feeling like they are being spied upon in their own home.
SIGN #4: She Makes Scenes In Public
No one likes a public scene. No one. So, you have to wonder what is going through her head every time she picks a loud fight with you, complete with lots of aggressive hand gesturing, in a very public space. Real adults have mature conversations about what’s bothering them, not crying fits in the middle of a mall.
SIGN #5: She Hates Just About Everyone
Someone who hates your friends, family, and people they’ve never met can not contribute to a loving, kind, and caring relationship. People who are extremely judgemental typically don’t alter this attitude, either. The question you then have to ask yourself is: Who wants to be with someone that miserable?
SIGN #6: She Wants You To Give Up Your Life
Healthy relationships allow each partner their autonomy, that is, the freedom to be themselves and live their lives according to what makes them happy. This includes being alone and hanging out with friends independently of said partner. When she gets extremely possessive of you, to the point where you haven’t talked to you mother in months, then it’s time you ended your relationship with a crazy person.
SIGN #7: Jealousy
Accusations of cheating can damage a relationship, even if they’re unfounded claims or gossip fodder from others. However, when your girl is the one who is constantly accusing you of infidelity and goes so far as to prove her theories (snooping through your phone), you have to wonder if she even wants to be in a relationship with you. Excessive jealousy is one of those sins that is not only a hassle to confront, but one that turns people off of relationships altogether.